Which one is worst?
“Not doing something which you always wanted to do” or
“Doing something that you never wanted to do”............
I understand this is tough thing to decide which one is difficult but one thing that is worst that the above two, the feeling that would rip you apart, will haunt you throughout your life is..... “Wishing to undo something miserable that you did in the past”
Have you ever felt a sudden urge to correct the mess which you have created in the past??? or have you stll continued with it just because you didn’t have enough courage to look into the person’s eyes and clarify things!!!....Be it anything.... stealing a one rupee coin from papa’s pocket or breaking your loved ones heart.... have you ever made an attempt to correct things from your end?
It is hard to get back the lost things in life...people say time changes... I guess that’s not true... same sun, same moon...same day and same night... it’s just us and our perception that keeps dwindling between our likes and our compromises....a few people move on and other just brood over their past and wish that things were different, things were better..... have you ever wondered “ why is it not possible to correct the mistakes that we did in past?” .. is it our ego? Or is it just the fear of rejection?
Life does give you a chance, to grab that special person, the special thing or the special moment in life.. for a few lucky people, the chance might come a number of times but for most of us, it happens only once... the point here is not about luck... we might get lucky at times by chancebut to be lucky always, we need to make a choice, a choice ..may be difficult, may be excruciating..May be annoying... but yes.... to win back what you loved and lost.. to make up for the lost time.. to get back what you want the most...u need to make a choice... decide and leave your ego......
Money can buy anything these days... fame, honour, respect etc but there are a few things which it will never qualify to buy.. things like love, happiness and most of all contentment..... if you are content from inside... rest of the world will bow in respect for you! And to be content you need to forgive yourself first ! accept yourself! Love yourself! Once you make peace with yourself, things will fall in place.. the greatest devil we need to fight is with in us... if we win that battle, 90% of the battle is won... once we console and convince ourselves, we can convince our loved ones..... we can fight for things which have lost earlier.... accept the failures and pave the way for success..... pave the way for a better future! pave the way for a better life with our loved ones.....
All you need to do is accept yourself and pursue your love till they accept you.. don't give up...pursue love.. pursue life!!!!
Quite enlightening post it is.
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