Fear....
I was wondering about this wonderful feeling... pardon me for calling it wonderful but... 'yes'..It is...
When you are happy or sad.. only your eyes and lips will show... but when you fear something, your whole body would feel the gitters... Hence I call it a Wonderful feeling.... :)
Fear that u are gonna die the next day and u haven't confessed your love to your beloved yet
Fear that your best friend wont like the secret affair that u are having
Fear that your friends would find out that u still read the old crappy mills and boon
Fear that your love would know abt your secret crush
Fear that someday you would lose the one you love dearly
Fear that you may not be able to make it big in your career.
We fear about so many things in life... a few may lead to productive things as they say "Fear is father of Invention" but a lot may not.. it is ultimately your call whether to be worried or to chuck it off and live happily.....I made my cute little lazy brain ponder a while to Identify what may be the root cause of this fear... I could come to only one conclusion... "what would other's feel about it"..... Most of the reasons why we fear is because of this!
You bought a Mini Skirt.... what would your Dad say?
You bought a new Perfume.. What would your husband say?
You made up your mind to marry somebody - would your friends approve of it?
You want to wear jeans at 60 - what would your grand children say?
Yes.. I agree, The Decision of the other person should be taken into consideration.... but to what extent? Unless you are not losing your identity.When you start living for others, you fear.... you fear about everything in life.... your happiness, sorrow, likes, dislikes... everything will be guided by their thoughts...
I have seen my friends backing out on many things in life.. be it about career or about personal life... The Fear that one should live up to the expectations of their parents, friends and relatives.....May be I was one among them, May be I still am.... but wait wait wait.. will I compromise on life changing decisions? NEVER!!!!!..... I am born stubborn.... I am infact happy to be that way.... Its good to listen and compromise with life now and then but if we do that all the time then their would be no difference between you and a lifeless stone. so, Friends.... please stop fearing! be it things, people or time..... and start living every moment as it comes.... I feel like I have given a philosophy session now.. sorry If I bored you.... I had to pour my thoughts somewhere and my blog is my victim...
